According
to the Mirriam-Webster dictionary, gender is defined as "the
behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one
sex". We often hear about gender roles, masculine/feminine
traits, and the many stereotypes that fall into each gender. Typically, gender
roles are the traditional responsibilities assigned to each gender (i.e. men
work and women raise children). Due to the traditionalism of these gender
roles, there are certain personality traits that follow each gender. Men are
said to be tough, independent, protective, and have the responsibility to be
hard-working. On the other hand, women are kind, gentle, nurturing, soft, and,
therefore, should be the primary caregiver to their children.
These “roles” that
we have assigned to each sex and labeled as “gender” can have detrimental
effects on a child. Take, for instance, a young girl playing in the mud with
her brother. As children will do, she throws some at her brother and is quickly
scolded because throwing mud is not “lady-like”. However, the same experience,
when shared between two young boys, is encouraged. Males are taught that
rowdiness is okay and we condition their poor behavior simply because “boys
will be boys”. An article* regarding the effects of stereotyping gender roles
lists possible, negative outcomes including violence and suppression of emotion
in males and excessive dieting, self-esteem issues, and avoidance of sports or
difficult athletics for females. Genders are an important part of who we are as
humans, but it is our responsibility to ensure that as we rear our children, we
teach them in both sides of the spectrum and avoid shoving them into
stereotypical behaviors that can cripple their abilities in the future.
Proverbs 22: 6
"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
*Link to Article: http://www.care2.com/causes/8-ways-gender-roles-actually-harm-our-kids.html
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